Sexual or otherwise, early-life abuse or chronic neglect left unhindered typically causes the brain to improperly develop. It can readily be the starting point of a life in which the brain uncontrollably releases potentially damaging levels of inflammatory stress hormones and chemicals, even in otherwise non-stressful daily routines.
It amounts to non-physical-impact brain damage in the form of PTSD. Among other dysfunctions, it has been described as an emotionally tumultuous daily existence, indeed a continuous discomforting anticipation of ‘the other shoe dropping’. For some others (like myself) it includes being simultaneously scared of how badly they will deal with the upsetting event, which usually never transpires. It can make every day a mental ordeal, unless the turmoil is prescription and/or illicitly medicated.
Therefore, the wellbeing of all children needs to be of great importance to us all, regardless of whether we’re doing a great job with our own children. And mindlessly ‘minding our own business’ often proves humanly devastating. Yet, largely owing to the Only If It’s In My Own Back Yard mindset, however, the prevailing collective attitude (implicit or subconscious) basically follows: ‘Why should I care — my kids are alright?’ or ‘What’s in it for me, the taxpayer?’
As a moral rule, a mentally as well as a physically sound future should be every child’s foremost fundamental right — along with air, water, food and shelter — especially considering the very troubled world into which they never asked to enter. Yet, many people still hold a misplaced yet strong sense of entitlement when it comes to misperceiving children largely as obedient property to abuse.
The problem seems to be within the system, the government do not want a National Inquiry into grooming gangs child sexual abuse which has been going on across many cities in the UK, which would highlight the problems within the system, the government are also considering stopping the free and fair elections which are part of our Fundamental Rights and should take place on the first Thursday in May 2025 ? The councils have Police and Crime Panels, made up of approximately 10 Councillors and 2 Independents, who can change a Criminal Compliant into an Non-Criminal Complaint, the Police are advised by the Police and Crime Panel, the Police have a duty to act and investigate all reported alleged criminal crimes, therefore are the Police and Crime Panels interfering in the Rule of Law. These are public services which should be working for the public, should they be following the Rule of Law ? How to Check Disclosure of Voting Rigging on an Industrial Scale. www.Sleazeexpo.wordpress.com
I followed your blogs for a while now and enjoyed reading them but please STOP concentrating on this crap that mentally sick Musk is flaring! Home office has published the statistics and they show that most rapes and abuse of kids is done by WHITE MEN! ALL rapists, must be jailed including priests, Christians, Jews, Muslims and Atheist, Hindus or others. The media never says Christian rapists or Jews rapists like the ones we seen recently in Israeli prisons raping Palestinians. Israel has become the promised land for pedophiles! Says the Jerusalem Post. However, where was Musk when he was photographed by pedophiles like Ghislaine Maxwell. When was Trump who is friend of Diddy and Epstein when Palestinians were raped for over 76 years? Where were they when IDF soldiers and General were indicted for rape? Where were they when 200 children rescued recently from Lev Tahor Jewish Sect in Guatemala? were raping Where were they when 5 white men abused children between 12 and 15 in Northamptonshire? Or when the Kidwelly Cult in Wales led by Colin Batley were all white and operating for years? Or when 20 white men and women convicted in West midlands for child sexual abuse? Or in Essex, Huddersfield, Hull, Devon, Manchester, North Yorkshire, Lincolnshire, Cornwall, Staffordshire, Stoke and other places? ALL these were white men! Just do your research. Yes, Rochdale were Pakistanis but that does not mean ALL 1.9 billion Muslims has to be tarnished like the "War on Terror" BS when all Muslims were classes as terrorists yet we know that those terrorists were created and funded by US, UK and Israel. I have been to Palestine and lived in the Middle East as Christian for a very long time and I know the area sand the people extremely well and I do not believe how BRAINWASHED Westerns are.
I am Christian and live by those ethos. I speak for the voiceless, those tarnished by Zionist LIES. I am sick and tired of seen Zionist fake propaganda brainwashing people yet the real terrorists are us (UK, US and Israel) who have a huge record of bombings, killings, kidnappings, creating wars and funding invasion where they kill millions, rape women and make millions refugees. Inquiries should be conducted for ALL these criminals and not select few.
I have followed Fox for years, this is about child sexual abuse grooming gangs, which is a criminal offence, not all white men or Pakistani men are child sexual abusers. U.K. Law prevents Sexual Offences Act 2003, therefore a National Independent Public Inquiry is favoured by the public to investigate and expose how Pakistani grooming gangs who have committed child sexual abuse offences across many cities has been allowed to escalate and carry on. All children should be safe .
I read a shocking article, headlined “‘Grave Sexual Abuse’: When the Word Rape Doesn’t Apply To Boys” [by Zahara Dawoodbhoy, 21 Sep 2020], about a South Asian nation/culture in which men have been raping boys with impunity.
There, girls’ vaginal virginity is traditionally/normally verified before an arranged marriage takes place. The ‘virginity’ of boys, however, is never even questioned, and therefore they cannot be sexually ‘spoiled’ or considered raped.
The following relevant segment is taken from the extensive article:
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…. According to the Penal Code of Sri Lanka, the word ‘rape’ is defined as a man having sex with a woman, under specific circumstances that lack consent. The rape of boys — and men — therefore, do not fall under this official legal definition, and the crime instead gets tried as ‘grave sexual abuse’. Although the punishment for the two offences is the same, the euphemism used to describe rape when it occurs to boys points to larger social attitudes of who we consider can be victims.
“I think there is a myth that it only happens to female children, and that has to do with the cultural aspect of people feeling that rape is a female-related issue,” Sonali Gunasekera, Senior Director of Advocacy at the Family Planning Association (FPA) told Roar Media. “That is probably why this archaic law is still in place — because that’s how it was seen from afar.”
Despite this myth, the fact remains that instances where young boys are raped in Sri Lanka are surprisingly frequent. Director of the Child Protection Force, Milani Salpitikorala, says that 90% of her current cases involve young boys, and the idea that the boy child is somehow less susceptible to sexual abuse and rape in this country is completely false.
“Our mindsets are set in a culture of ‘Don’t worry about your child if he is a boy,’ but the boy child is as unsafe in the hands of perpetrators as much as the girl child is, if not more,” she said.
In 1997, a community study was conducted on university students in Sri Lanka, where a questionnaire was administered to two sets of undergraduates — one that had heard a lecture on child abuse prior to completing the survey, and one that had not. In both groups, the percentage of boys that admitted to being sexually abused during their childhood was higher.
Despite these findings, little research has been conducted looking into the demographics of child rape, and prevalent social attitudes around gender continue to erase boys from the demographic of people considered to be rape victims.
Even when the abuse does come to light, it is shrugged off by the idea that ‘ships don’t leave tracks on water’, which is a phrase used to imply that because there is no physical virginity to be lost, no harm has been done.
“In many cases I have seen, families and peers of young boys who are being sexually abused don’t take it seriously because the ‘issue’ of virginity doesn’t come into play,” Thushara Manoj, Senior Manager for advocacy at the FPA told Roar Media.
“When a girl gets raped, this is seen as an issue because it is believed her virginity has been compromised, and she also has the capacity to become pregnant from it. This means that her marriage prospects will suffer, and there is a risk of her abuse becoming apparent.”
But with boys, Manoj explains that this fear does not exist, and as a result, families are unlikely to intervene, especially if the perpetrator is a member of the family or community at large. ….
Sexual or otherwise, early-life abuse or chronic neglect left unhindered typically causes the brain to improperly develop. It can readily be the starting point of a life in which the brain uncontrollably releases potentially damaging levels of inflammatory stress hormones and chemicals, even in otherwise non-stressful daily routines.
It amounts to non-physical-impact brain damage in the form of PTSD. Among other dysfunctions, it has been described as an emotionally tumultuous daily existence, indeed a continuous discomforting anticipation of ‘the other shoe dropping’. For some others (like myself) it includes being simultaneously scared of how badly they will deal with the upsetting event, which usually never transpires. It can make every day a mental ordeal, unless the turmoil is prescription and/or illicitly medicated.
Therefore, the wellbeing of all children needs to be of great importance to us all, regardless of whether we’re doing a great job with our own children. And mindlessly ‘minding our own business’ often proves humanly devastating. Yet, largely owing to the Only If It’s In My Own Back Yard mindset, however, the prevailing collective attitude (implicit or subconscious) basically follows: ‘Why should I care — my kids are alright?’ or ‘What’s in it for me, the taxpayer?’
As a moral rule, a mentally as well as a physically sound future should be every child’s foremost fundamental right — along with air, water, food and shelter — especially considering the very troubled world into which they never asked to enter. Yet, many people still hold a misplaced yet strong sense of entitlement when it comes to misperceiving children largely as obedient property to abuse.
The problem seems to be within the system, the government do not want a National Inquiry into grooming gangs child sexual abuse which has been going on across many cities in the UK, which would highlight the problems within the system, the government are also considering stopping the free and fair elections which are part of our Fundamental Rights and should take place on the first Thursday in May 2025 ? The councils have Police and Crime Panels, made up of approximately 10 Councillors and 2 Independents, who can change a Criminal Compliant into an Non-Criminal Complaint, the Police are advised by the Police and Crime Panel, the Police have a duty to act and investigate all reported alleged criminal crimes, therefore are the Police and Crime Panels interfering in the Rule of Law. These are public services which should be working for the public, should they be following the Rule of Law ? How to Check Disclosure of Voting Rigging on an Industrial Scale. www.Sleazeexpo.wordpress.com
I followed your blogs for a while now and enjoyed reading them but please STOP concentrating on this crap that mentally sick Musk is flaring! Home office has published the statistics and they show that most rapes and abuse of kids is done by WHITE MEN! ALL rapists, must be jailed including priests, Christians, Jews, Muslims and Atheist, Hindus or others. The media never says Christian rapists or Jews rapists like the ones we seen recently in Israeli prisons raping Palestinians. Israel has become the promised land for pedophiles! Says the Jerusalem Post. However, where was Musk when he was photographed by pedophiles like Ghislaine Maxwell. When was Trump who is friend of Diddy and Epstein when Palestinians were raped for over 76 years? Where were they when IDF soldiers and General were indicted for rape? Where were they when 200 children rescued recently from Lev Tahor Jewish Sect in Guatemala? were raping Where were they when 5 white men abused children between 12 and 15 in Northamptonshire? Or when the Kidwelly Cult in Wales led by Colin Batley were all white and operating for years? Or when 20 white men and women convicted in West midlands for child sexual abuse? Or in Essex, Huddersfield, Hull, Devon, Manchester, North Yorkshire, Lincolnshire, Cornwall, Staffordshire, Stoke and other places? ALL these were white men! Just do your research. Yes, Rochdale were Pakistanis but that does not mean ALL 1.9 billion Muslims has to be tarnished like the "War on Terror" BS when all Muslims were classes as terrorists yet we know that those terrorists were created and funded by US, UK and Israel. I have been to Palestine and lived in the Middle East as Christian for a very long time and I know the area sand the people extremely well and I do not believe how BRAINWASHED Westerns are.
I am Christian and live by those ethos. I speak for the voiceless, those tarnished by Zionist LIES. I am sick and tired of seen Zionist fake propaganda brainwashing people yet the real terrorists are us (UK, US and Israel) who have a huge record of bombings, killings, kidnappings, creating wars and funding invasion where they kill millions, rape women and make millions refugees. Inquiries should be conducted for ALL these criminals and not select few.
I have followed Fox for years, this is about child sexual abuse grooming gangs, which is a criminal offence, not all white men or Pakistani men are child sexual abusers. U.K. Law prevents Sexual Offences Act 2003, therefore a National Independent Public Inquiry is favoured by the public to investigate and expose how Pakistani grooming gangs who have committed child sexual abuse offences across many cities has been allowed to escalate and carry on. All children should be safe .
I read a shocking article, headlined “‘Grave Sexual Abuse’: When the Word Rape Doesn’t Apply To Boys” [by Zahara Dawoodbhoy, 21 Sep 2020], about a South Asian nation/culture in which men have been raping boys with impunity.
There, girls’ vaginal virginity is traditionally/normally verified before an arranged marriage takes place. The ‘virginity’ of boys, however, is never even questioned, and therefore they cannot be sexually ‘spoiled’ or considered raped.
The following relevant segment is taken from the extensive article:
___
…. According to the Penal Code of Sri Lanka, the word ‘rape’ is defined as a man having sex with a woman, under specific circumstances that lack consent. The rape of boys — and men — therefore, do not fall under this official legal definition, and the crime instead gets tried as ‘grave sexual abuse’. Although the punishment for the two offences is the same, the euphemism used to describe rape when it occurs to boys points to larger social attitudes of who we consider can be victims.
“I think there is a myth that it only happens to female children, and that has to do with the cultural aspect of people feeling that rape is a female-related issue,” Sonali Gunasekera, Senior Director of Advocacy at the Family Planning Association (FPA) told Roar Media. “That is probably why this archaic law is still in place — because that’s how it was seen from afar.”
Despite this myth, the fact remains that instances where young boys are raped in Sri Lanka are surprisingly frequent. Director of the Child Protection Force, Milani Salpitikorala, says that 90% of her current cases involve young boys, and the idea that the boy child is somehow less susceptible to sexual abuse and rape in this country is completely false.
“Our mindsets are set in a culture of ‘Don’t worry about your child if he is a boy,’ but the boy child is as unsafe in the hands of perpetrators as much as the girl child is, if not more,” she said.
In 1997, a community study was conducted on university students in Sri Lanka, where a questionnaire was administered to two sets of undergraduates — one that had heard a lecture on child abuse prior to completing the survey, and one that had not. In both groups, the percentage of boys that admitted to being sexually abused during their childhood was higher.
Despite these findings, little research has been conducted looking into the demographics of child rape, and prevalent social attitudes around gender continue to erase boys from the demographic of people considered to be rape victims.
Even when the abuse does come to light, it is shrugged off by the idea that ‘ships don’t leave tracks on water’, which is a phrase used to imply that because there is no physical virginity to be lost, no harm has been done.
“In many cases I have seen, families and peers of young boys who are being sexually abused don’t take it seriously because the ‘issue’ of virginity doesn’t come into play,” Thushara Manoj, Senior Manager for advocacy at the FPA told Roar Media.
“When a girl gets raped, this is seen as an issue because it is believed her virginity has been compromised, and she also has the capacity to become pregnant from it. This means that her marriage prospects will suffer, and there is a risk of her abuse becoming apparent.”
But with boys, Manoj explains that this fear does not exist, and as a result, families are unlikely to intervene, especially if the perpetrator is a member of the family or community at large. ….
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Source website: https://roar.media/english/life/features/grave-sexual-abuse-when-rape-does-not-apply-to-boys